Sympathy Saturday

    Sympathy Saturday will be where I share the obituaries and my condolences for members of my family tree who passed recently.  When you get to be a certain age, you begin to read the obituaries every day.  As the days go by, you read about more and more of your friends and family members who have died.  You compare their age to your own and get a jolt. "That could have been me." 

    For genealogists, checking obituaries and visiting cemeteries is as normal as breathing. I learn so much from an obituary, i.e., maiden names, parents' names; children's' and grandchildren's' names, funeral and burial locations, sometimes even a cause of death.  I want to learn these things not for any purpose but to put it on the family tree for future generations to see and learn about the family that went before them. I admit, most of these relatives I have never met, but I think it is important to share that they were here on this Earth, and they were important.

    So I am signed up with at least three funerals homes from Swainsboro, Vidalia, and Wrightsville to get daily notices of obituaries sent to my email.  Every day, I peruse them and with the help of the family tree, figure out who is related to me and add any new information to the tree. Some weeks there are several, and some weeks there are none. This week there are two who actually passed away a few months ago as I got behind on email for while. So I may be doubling up for a few weeks.

    Please join me in offering condolences to their families and holding them in the light.

Rita Tapley Marshall
April 20, 1942 - May 14, 2026
Waycross, Ware, Georgia, USA

Rita Tapley "Nanu" Marshall, 84, died peacefully in her sleep early Thursday morning (May 14, 2026) following a brief illness at Waycross Health and Rehabilitation.

She was born in Villa Rica GA, had lived most of her life in Marietta GA before making her home in Waycross for the past 8 years.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Harley Eugene Marshall, a son Kevin Howard Marshall and her parents Carl Norman Tapley and Roberta Lee Tapley.

She was a member of Pleasant Valley Baptist Church and the Adult Ladies 2. Sunday School Class.

Survivors include her son: David Marshall (wife Briana), a granddaughter, Isabela Marshall, and a grandson, Elijah Marshall all of Waycross; a sister: Cathy Miller (husband Art) of Magnolia Springs AL, and two nephews, Drew Miller of Magnolia Springs, AL and Ben Miller of Tallapoosa GA.

In lieu of flowers it is requested that donations be made to Pleasant Valley Baptist Church, 7136 Central Ave, Waycross, GA 31503 or online at www.pvbcwaycross.org.

A committal service will be held at 3:00 PM Saturday (May 16, 2026) in the Pleasant Grove Baptist Church Cemetery in Villa Rica, GA.

A Celebration of Life Service will be held at 2:00 PM Tuesday (May 26, 2026) at Pleasant Valley Baptist Church. The family will receive friends immediately following the service in the church Fellowship Hall.

Sympathy can be expressed by signing the online registry at www.musicfuneralhome.com.

Music Funeral Home of Waycross is in charge of arrangements.

Marcella Diane Nail Sapp
July 08, 1967 - June 01, 2026

Marcella Diane Sapp, 58, entered into eternal rest on June 1, 2026, at Community Hospice.

Born on July 8, 1967, Marcella was the daughter of Velma Beasley Curl of Reidsville and Ben L. Nail of Collins. She was a 1985 graduate of Pinewood Christian Academy and knew from an early age that she was called to become a teacher. She attended Georgia Southern University, where she earned both her Bachelor of Science and Master of Science degrees in Early Childhood Education.

Marcella devoted her life to teaching and nurturing young minds. During her career, she taught in the Tattnall, Montgomery, and Wheeler County school systems. Although she never had children of her own, she lovingly considered her students to be her children. She poured her heart into the classroom and touched the lives of countless students and their families through her compassion, patience, and dedication.

A faithful member of First Baptist Church of Lyons, Marcella’s life was grounded in her Christian faith. Shortly after beginning her teaching career, she married the love of her life, William “Lee” Sapp of Lyons. Together they shared more than thirty-one years of marriage built on faith, love, laughter, and unwavering devotion.

In November 2004, Marcella was diagnosed with a benign brain tumor, a diagnosis that ultimately prevented her from returning to the classroom she loved so dearly. Through every challenge that followed, Lee remained faithfully by her side, honoring the vows he made before God. Despite the limitations imposed by her illness, Marcella and Lee continued to enjoy road trips and make cherished memories together for many years.

In January 2023, Marcella’s health declined further, leaving her bedridden. Yet even then, her mind remained as sharp as ever. She enjoyed talking on the phone with family and friends, sharing good food, and watching her favorite television programs. Though her earthly body endured many hardships, Marcella rarely complained. Those closest to her knew that if she voiced her struggles, it was in prayer. In her Bible, she had marked Psalm 143, a quiet testimony to the faith that sustained her through difficult days. Though she seldom shared her burdens with others, she faithfully carried them to the Lord in prayer.

Marcella will be remembered for her loving heart, her dedication to education, her quiet strength, and her steadfast faith in God. Her grace in the face of adversity was an inspiration to all who knew her.

She was preceded in death by her stepmother, Kay Lively Nail; her brother-in-law, Dewey O. Batton; and her grandparents, Otis and Jessie Beasley and Frank and Eunice Nail.

Left to cherish her memory are her devoted husband of more than thirty-one years, William “Lee” Sapp; her beloved fur babies; her mother and stepfather, Velma and Gary Curl of Reidsville; her father, Ben L. Nail of Collins; her sister, Melissa Batton of Lyons; her brother, Brent Nail (MaryLynn) of Bishop; her niece, Laura Johnson of Lebanon, Tennessee; her nephew, Ben Johnson of Atlanta; her nephew, Garrett Nail, and her niece, Gracen Nail, both of Bishop; her great-nephews, Camdon Cody and Carson Cody of Lebanon, Tennessee; and numerous extended family members, former students, and dear friends.

A graveside funeral service celebrating Marcella’s life will be held on Saturday morning, June 6th, 2026, at 10:00 at Cedar Creek Primitive Baptist Church, 1199 Cedar Creek Church Road, Collins, Georgia. Pastor Brian Durden will officiate.

Pallbearers are Brent Nail, Garrett Nail, James Rogers, Joe Skeens, Ben Johnson, and Tommy Kennedy.

Flowers will be accepted, or memorial contributions may be made to Community Hospice Foundation, PO Box 2277, Vidalia, GA 30475, in Marcella’s memory.

Though she is no longer with us, Marcella’s legacy lives on in the lives she touched, the students she inspired, and the family and friends who were blessed to know and love her.

“Well done, good and faithful servant.” — Matthew 25:23

Written by her sister, Melissa.

Friday's Faces from the Past

 

John Morgan Swain
1855-1925

John Morgan Swain was born in Georgia, but spent the vast majority of his life in Florida.  I can tell this picture was more than likely taken in Florida as there are palm trees in the background.

Interesting tidbit about him and his wife, Sarah Ellen Anderson Swain.  They had 10 children, and they named 7 of them after U.S. states:

    Indiana (1876-1943)

    Idaho (1878-1951)

    California (1880-1951)

    Dakota (1882-1946)

    Minnesota (1884-1965)

    Connecticut (1887-1889)

    Arizona (1889-1891)

The story is that after Connecticut and Arizona died so young, John Morgan and Sarah Ellen were afraid they had jinxed themselves by naming all their girls after states. So their next child was born in 1892 and they gave her and the youngest two "traditional" names.  They all three lived to adulthood.  (And yes, they finally had a boy!)

Sunday's Obituary

 

Newspapers.com, The Macon Telegraph, Macon, Georgia
Friday, April 23, 2004, Page 26

Doris Edna Anderson Caraway
March 29, 1912 - April 21, 2004

Military Monday

    Military Monday posts are made to honor those in my family tree who have served in the United States military.

Ollie Whitton "O.W." Tapley, Jr.

Sergeant, U.S. Army, World War II, Disabled

O.W. is my 3rd cousin 2x removed.  Our common ancestors are Archibald Odom III and Isabella Elizabeth Anderson.

    O.W. is also my 4th cousin, 1x removed on my Tapley line. This happens in my tree a lot since my ancestors hailed from small communities.

    Thank you for your service.

Sympathy Saturday

     Sympathy Saturday will be where I share the obituaries and my condolences for members of my family tree who passed recently.  When you get to be a certain age, you begin to read the obituaries every day.  As the days go by, you read about more and more of your friends and family members who have died.  You compare their age to your own and get a jolt. "That could have been me." 

    For genealogists, checking obituaries and visiting cemeteries is as normal as breathing. I learn so much from an obituary, i.e., maiden names, parents' names; children's' and grandchildren's' names, funeral and burial locations, sometimes even a cause of death.  I want to learn these things not for any purpose but to put it on the family tree for future generations to see and learn about the family that went before them. I admit, most of these relatives I have never met, but I think it is important to share that they were here on this Earth, and they were important.

    So I am signed up with at least three funerals homes from Swainsboro, Vidalia, and Wrightsville to get daily notices of obituaries sent to my email.  Every day, I peruse them and with the help of the family tree, figure out who is related to me and add any new information to the tree.    Some weeks there are several, and some weeks there are none.                               

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"Mahon Lee Clements Obituary Graveside funeral services for Mahon Lee Clements, age 75, will be held at 2:00 P.M. Friday, April 4, 2025, at Mt. Olive Church of the Nazarene Cemetery. Mr. Thurmon Foskey will officiate.

Mr. Clements was born on February 7, 1950, in Dublin, Georgia. He was a member of the Mt. Olive Church of the Nazarene where he served as a work and witness team member. He was a licensed contractor, electrician and plumber and later worked for the Department of Transportation as a general trade craftsman foreman. He was preceded in death by his parents, Marvin and Ruby Foskey Clements and siblings Kenneth Clements, Ronnie Clements, David Clements, Charles Clements, Troy Clements, Aurelia Clements Garnto and Lois Clements Poole. Mr. Clements passed away on Wednesday, April 2, 2025, at his residence.

Mr. Clements is survived by his wife, Mary Frances Clements of Kite, 2 daughters, Ramona Clements (Alan) Smith and Karen Clements (Garyth) Everett of Tennille; 2 brothers, Gerald Clements and Wadell (Betty) Clements of Wrightsville; sister, Elizabeth Tyson of Dublin; sister-in-law, Ann Tyson of Dublin; grandchildren, Spencer (Josephine Hedrick) Smith, Carson Everett, Ethan Smith, and Mallory Everett; and a host of nieces and nephews. Pallbearers will be Jim Musselwhite, Stanley Clements, Stevie Clements, Jay Foskey, Elliott Tyson and Joe McCullough.

Stanley Funeral Home and Crematory/Wrightsville Chapel has charge of the funeral arrangements."

- Official Obituary courtesy of Stanley Funeral Home & Crematory, Wrightsville Chapel

    Mahon was my 4th cousin, 1x removed. Our common ancestors are Archibald Odom III and Isabella Elizabeth Anderson.

    Please join me in offering condolences to Mahon's family and holding them in the light.

Thriller Thursday - A Murder in Vidalia

   On May 28, 2014, Robin Lyn Willis Matthews (1989-2014), a beautiful, young woman, a teacher, wife, daughter, sister, and friend was murdered just for trying to help someone. Someone who, unbeknownst to Robin, was a predator and should have been still in prison for his past crimes.  

  It was a Wednesday evening, and Robin had stopped at Walmart. Security cameras show Simon Dixon Mitchell approaching Robin in the parking lot, they exchange words, and then he climbs into her car.  Turns out, Mitchell asked for a ride to the hospital. Did Robin know him from around town? We don't know if that's possible or, if he was a stranger, why she would give him a ride.  However, a long time friend of Robin's described her as "the kindest and the sweetest" person. She also commented about Robin, "She would do anything for anyone." 

  Later that night, Robin was found dead in her car elsewhere in Vidalia.  She had been stabbed multiple times.  

  The suspect was apprehended quickly.  At his first court appearance the day after the murder, he told the presiding judge that he was as guilty as it gets. 

  This was a crime that was eligible for the death penalty. In order to avoid years of waiting for a trial, Robin's family agreed to a plea deal.  Mitchell claims he would have preferred execution, but agreed to the deal.  He was sentenced to two life sentences plus 30 years. Mitchell would "serve the first life sentence without parole, followed by five years, then the second life sentence followed by five years with an additional 20 years."  That sentence doesn't make sense to me - how do you serve time AFTER a life sentence; isn't that for LIFE???!!! - but bottom line, he should never get out of prison.  

  That part is most important because it turns out he should not have been on the streets in the first place.  He attacked a video store employee in Vidalia in 2006 and was sentenced to 15 years in prison for aggravated assault with intent to commit sodomy. He only served 8 years of that sentence and had just been released in January 2014 - a mere four months before Robin was killed.

  I cannot even imagine what her family and friends went through. Her mother, Helen Anderson Willis,  just passed away on March 3, 2025. (See my blog post here.) She is with her sweet daughter again.  

Local

Georgia first-grade teacher stabbed to death

May 29, 2014 at 1:13 pm EDT

TOOMBS COUNTY, Ga. — A man is facing charges after a first-grade teacher was found stabbed to death in Toombs County.

It happened Wednesday night on Highway 292 in Vidalia, according to WTOC.

The Toombs County coroner says Robin Matthews, 24, was killed in her car behind the Vidalia Recreational Department.

Matthews was a first-grade teacher at Lyons Primary School where she just completed her first year. She was a 2008 graduate of Toombs County High School and was recently married.

According to WTOC's Dal Cannady, police arrested Simon Dixon for the crime.

Cannady learned that Dixon had just been released from prison in January 2014. He was serving time for aggravated assault and attempted aggravated sodomy and had been in prison since 2007.

The homicide remains under investigation by the Georgia Bureau of Investigation and Vidalia Police. School counselors in Toombs County say they will be available to help students affected by the tragedy.

WSB-TV Channel 2, Atlanta, Georgia

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Murder suspect awaits bond hearing in teacher's murder

By WTOC Staff

Published: May. 29, 2014 at 6:36 PM EDT|Updated: Jun. 28, 2014 at 9:04 AM EDT

(Source: Toombs Co. Sheriff's Office)

VIDALIA, GA (WTOC) - Friends and co-workers remain horrified at the murder of a Toombs 

County first grade teacher.

Police found Robin Lynn Matthews dead in her car on Old Vidalia Lyons Road off Highway 

292 Wednesday night. Police have a suspect, Simon Dixon, in custody charged with murder.

According to Toombs County Coroner Ronald Hall, Robin Matthews, 24, was killed in her 

car behind the Vidalia Recreational Department.

Matthews was a first grade teacher at Lyons Primary School where she just completed her first year. She was a 2008 graduate of Toombs County High School and recently married.

Life-long friend Ginger Russell was still in disbelief Thursday morning.  "She was the kindest 

person and the sweetest person all her life. She would do anything for anyone, " Russell said.

At Lyons Primary, a counselor was available - even though summer vacation has started - for 

any students who needed someone to talk to about the loss.

"We want them to have that now because she was so beloved and we'll have it this fall when 

students return because she will still be missed then," said principal Sandra Floyd.

After doing some digging, WTOC found out that Dixon had just been released from prison in 

January 2014. He was serving time for aggravated assault and attempted aggravated sodomy 

and had been in prison since 2007.

The homicide remains under investigation by the Georgia Bureau of Investigations and Vidalia Police.

Dixon remains in the Toombs County Jail, awaiting a bond hearing.

WTOC's Dal Cannady is in Vidalia following this developing story and will have more details 

about the investigation to come. 

WTOC 11 online, Savannah, Georgia

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Fatal stabbing takes the life of a former Brewton-Parker student 

Clipped from: http://dev.bpc.edu/news_and_info/news/2014/May/5-29_Tragedy_takes_life_of_former_Brewton_Parker_student.htm (this link is no longer available.) Brewton-Parker College News online, 2014.

Robin Willis Matthews

On Wednesday evening, May 28, police reports confirm Ms. Robin Willis Matthews was found in her car stabbed to death behind and/or near the Bethany Nursing Home in Vidalia, Georgia. Officials say the 24 year-old first grade school teacher apparently stopped her car long enough for her alleged assailant, Simon Mitchell, whom law enforcement presently has in custody, to fatally stab her to death. She was pronounced dead at the scene by the coroner. According to the GBI and the Toombs County Sheriff's Office, no details will be released until the on-going homicide investigation is complete. 

Many students and faculty at Brewton-Parker College in neighboring Mount Vernon, Georgia are emotionally stunned upon hearing Ms. Matthews’ untimely and tragic death. Newly married but without children, Robin Matthews attended Brewton-Parker College from 2008 until 2011 when she decided to move her major to Georgia Southern in Statesboro, Georgia from which she received her education degree. Up until her untimely death last evening, Matthews was working on her master’s degree at Armstrong Atlantic State University in Savannah, Georgia. 

According to her Facebook page, Ms. Matthews participated in the Brewton-Parker College cheerleading team during the 2008-2009 school year. Present employees recall her sweet spirit, cooperative attitude, and competitive skill-set. 

Just beginning her professional teaching career in October of last year, Ms. Matthews taught a first grade class at the Lyons Primary School, Lyons, Georgia. Personal friend and educator at the same school, Ms. Millie Price, reflected upon both her personal and professional relationship with Matthews. “She had a very challenging first year at school but she persevered and was looking forward to her first summer break. I am heart-broken to lose such a sweet coworker.” Ms. Price went on to speak of Matthews’ recently reminiscing about her days at Brewton-Parker.  

“Robin spoke to me the last week of school about her time at BPC.  She warmly commented on how she loved to cheer at the basketball games, and how she was pleased to hear cheerleading on campus is much more serious and competitive now than when she was a part of the squad.” 

 Only recently did Ms Matthews judge competition tryouts for next   year’s cheerleading teams at the Toombs County High School.                                                                                                     

Ms. Price, presently serving as the President of the National Alumni for Brewton-Parker College, also mentioned her conversation with Matthews about volunteer service for Brewton-Parker. “Robin and I also recently spoke about her working with me and the Miss BPC volunteers next year." 

Though Ms. Matthews did not officially graduate from Brewton-Parker College, her life and influence made an indelible mark on this community. Her absence brings a sense of both sadness and joy. Sadness because a young, energetic Christian visionary was so brutally and prematurely snatched from our community. Joy because our Lord allowed her to be an influential member of the Brewton-Parker family. 

Matthews poses for
a photo during the 
2008-2009 season.

    May our loving Lord Jesus give Robin Matthews’ family comfort, joy, and peace in their time of need.  

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Simon Dixon Mitchell indicted by grand jury in 
Toombs teacher murder, faces 13 other charges

By WTOC Staff
Published: Sep. 16, 2014 at 9:18 PM EDT|Updated: Oct. 16, 2014 at 9:18 PM EDT

TOOMBS CO., GA (WTOC) - Middle Judicial Circuit District Attorney Hayward Altman said Simon Dixon Mitchell was formally indicted by a grand jury on Tuesday for murder and thirteen other charges.

Mitchell faces murder charges for the May stabbing death of 24-year-old elementary school teacher Robin Matthews in Toombs County.

Security footage from Walmart showed Mitchell approaching Matthews, then getting in her car. Minutes later a 911 call was received of someone found dead of stab wounds in a car on Old Vidalia Lyons Road. Mitchell was arrested near the murder scene.

Mitchell was released from prison in January after serving eight years for aggravated assault with intent to commit sodomy. According to police, he attacked an employee at Video Warehouse in 2006.

WTOC 11 online, Savannah, Georgia

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Man sentenced to 2 life sentences, plus 30 years, in murder of Toombs County teacher

By Dal Cannady

Published: Feb. 19, 2015 at 10:31 PM EST|Updated: Mar. 21, 2015 at 9:31 PM EDT

TOOMBS CO., GA (WTOC) - The murder of a first grade teacher in Toombs County last May shocked and saddened a community.

The suspect in that murder told a judge he was guilty as it gets just a day later. On Thursday, prosecutors and the victim's family allowed him to plead guilty and avoid trial.

The plea agreement for Simon Dixon Mitchell in the murder of Robin Matthews comes less than a year after the first grade teacher was stabbed and killed, and a year or more before the death penalty case could go to trial.

Mitchell came to court and pled guilty to murder, kidnapping and lesser charges in the May 2014 death of Matthews. Loved ones showed emotions as prosecutors described how Mitchell approached Matthews in a parking lot and asked for a ride to the hospital and stabbed her to death minutes later.

Mitchell sat in the very seat where he'd told a different judge he was as guilty as it gets during his first court appearance the day after the murder. Prosecutors introduced a sentence of back to back life sentences, plus thirty years, and Judge Kathy Palmer agreed. Mitchell will serve the first life sentence without parole, followed by five years, then the second life sentence followed by five years with an additional 20 years.

District Attorney Hayward Altman said the plea saves the family years of agony waiting for a trial and decades waiting for a possible execution.

“Usually, death penalty cases take three to five years, by the time you have all the motions, the psychological evaluations and hearings,” said Altman. “It takes that long before it can go to trial.”

Dixon apologized to the family and said he'd prefer to be executed, but he's taking the plea to end the case while his own ailing mother is still alive. Loved ones of Matthews told Mitchell in court they hope her name and face stay in his mind for the rest of his life.

Robin was my 4th cousin, 1x removed.  Our common ancestors are Canneth Swain and Sarah Tapley.