Sunday, March 2, 2025

Black Sheep Sunday - Frank Sirman Hart (1919-1984)

 The purpose of the Black Sheet Sunday prompt is to highlight a black sheep of the family tree.  Every one of us has skeletons in our closet, so to speak, but these black sheep had the unfortunate luck of their skeletons making the newspaper.  That's where I found the story.  There is always three sides to a story: his, hers and the truth.  I am not so naive as to believe that the news printed the truth, but most of the time, the printed news pieces are all I have to go by.  There is no judgment here; just sharing the stories.

On the evening of Thursday, July 24, 1975, Frank and his son, Stephen Sirman "Steve" Hart (1949-1975) were hanging out on the porch and drinking heavily.  This led to a big fight.  Frank's son-in-law, and Steve's brother-in-law, Carroll Key (who happened to be a police sergeant), broke up the fight.  Key lived in the neighborhood, so he went home and ended up on a telephone call.  Later, Key had just finished his phone call when a second fight between the father and son broke out.

Carroll Key told officers that he headed back to his father-in-law's house and while enroute, he saw Steve strike his father, Frank, several times.

Key reached the porch and saw a knife in Frank's hand. The next thing  he knew, Steve was groaning, grabbing at his back, and falling to the floor. 

Key took the knife away from Frank and notified the Key West police.  It was about 11:30 p.m. by then. 

Steve was rushed to the Florida Keys Memorial Hospital where physicians and emergency room staff tried to revive him.  However, the knife had penetrated his heart.  Steve Hart was pronounced dead at 11:55 p.m.

Published in The Key West Citizen
Key West, Florida
Friday, July 25, 1975, Front Page

  The article states that Frank was charged with second degree murder that night. In the morning, he was given a $5,000 bond and released to await trial.  Unfortunately that is all I know about the aftermath of this horrible incident that must have torn this family apart.  I haven't been able to find out if Frank served time, and if he did, how much.  All I do know is he died exactly 9 years later, on July 24, 1984.  

Steve's obituary offers no hint of the turmoil surrounding his death:

Published in The Key West Citizen
Key West, Florida,
Wednesday, July 27, 1975, Page 3


This is the most recent picture of Steve Hart that I could find.  It was from his Key West High School Yearbook in 1967.  He would have been about 17 in this photo; he was 25 when he died.

I wonder if Frank was ostracized for this in his community.  His family seemed to stay together, but the cost was probably great. Frank was only 64 when he died.  Was there guilt? Pressure from all sides? 

The most obvious lesson from this, in my opinion, is that the complicated relationship between a father and son and alcohol don't mix. What probably started as an enjoyable evening, hanging out, and drinking turned into a nightmare the family never woke from

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Steve was my half 4th cousin, 1x removed, and his father, Frank, was my half 4th cousin.  Our common ancestor was Canneth Swain (1770-1831).

                                                                  

Saturday, March 1, 2025

Saturday Night Genealogy Fun - Your RootsTech 2025 Plans

 From Randy (my cousin) over at Genea-Musings:

it's Saturday Night 
time for more Genealogy Fun!!!


Your mission, should you decide to accept it, is to:

1)  'Twas the week before RootsTech 2025, and all through the house, the genealogists were checking their RootsTech schedule.  What classes are you looking forward to watching online (for FREE) or attending in-person?

2) Tell us about your plans for RootsTech 2025 in your own blog post, in a comment on this post, or in a Facebook post.  Please leave a link on this post if you write your own post.

Here's mine:

Earlier this week, I picked out 22 classes to watch online during RootsTech, which is Thursday, March 6 through Saturday, March 8, 2025.  That is 9 classes on Thursday, 10 classes on Friday, and 4 classes on Saturday.  RootsTech holds classes almost 24 hours a day during the conference! I have already warned my mother that I will be locked in my office for three days and will only come out to eat, sleep and feed my cats.  


I did sign up for three AI classes (all times are ET):

(1)  Thursday, 6:30 pm - Learn Genealogy Faster and Easier with Artificial Intelligence.  This class is for beginners, which I am a beginner with AI.

(2)  Thursday, 9:15 pm - How Can Artificial Intelligence Assist Family Historians

(3) Saturday, 11:30 am - AI-Powered Transcription of Handwritten Documents: Tools and Techniques

I also signed up for three Census-related classes:

(1) Thursday, 8 a.m. - Mining the Census, Are you Finding Every Clue? Part I 

(2) Thursday, 9 a.m. - Mining the Census, Are You Finding Every Clue? Part 2

(3) Friday, 2:15 p.m. - A Deep Dive into the US Census Records

The rest of my classes pertain to DNA (2 classes), sources, and just general research.  

My head will be reeling after all of that.  The great thing is that any I fall asleep during or can't fit into my schedule will be be available on the RootsTech site after the conference.  

This is the only genealogy conference I get to attend since it is available online. I look forward to it every year, and I always learn something.  I have already taken advantage of "Relatives at RootsTech," which led me to extend some of my lines back a couple of generations and helped me touch base with a cousin I haven't met yet.  Now we are making plans to meet and visit cemeteries.  That's always a good time to me!

Sympathy Saturday - Mary J 'Mae Mae' Murphy Kent (1932-2025)

 Sympathy Saturday will be where I share the obituaries and my condolences for members of my family tree who passed recently.  When you get to be a certain age, you begin to read the obituaries every day.  As the days go by, you read about more and more of your friends and family members who have died.  You compare their age to your own and get a jolt. "That could have been me." 

For genealogists, checking obituaries and visiting cemeteries is as normal as breathing. I learn so much from an obituary, i.e., maiden names, parents' names; children's' and grandchildren's' names, funeral and burial locations, sometimes even a cause of death.  I want to learn these things not for any purpose but to put it on the family tree for future generations to see and learn about the family that went before them. I admit, most of these relatives I have never met, but I think it is important to share that they were here on this Earth, and they were important.

So I am signed up with at least three funerals homes from Swainsboro, Vidalia, and Wrightsville to get daily notices of obituaries sent to my email.  Every day, I peruse them and with the help of the family tree, figure out who is related to me and add any new information to the tree.    Some weeks there are several, and some weeks there are none.  This week, there were none, so I am going to go back a couple of weeks to find one to share.                                            

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Mrs. Mary Murphy Kent “Mae Mae”, 92, of Swainsboro passed away Saturday, February 1, 2025, following a brief illness, Mae Mae was called to her final home in glory.  She was resting peacefully at home surrounded by family, which is where she prayed to be.  She was born April 16, 1932, in Swainsboro to the late James Cecil Murphy and Lydia Kight Murphy.  A graduate of Swainsboro High School, she then attended Augusta Business School.  Her major passion was fashion and making things beautiful.  Owner and operator of Mary’s Ladies Shop in Swainsboro for 25 years.  A career that she thrived on made her happy and full of laughter and friends.  After retirement, she filled her days with being a wife, mother and grandmother.  She enjoyed gardening and visiting her friends who were ill or shut in.  On her visits, she almost always baked cookies or brownies to take them.  A great cook her family has several favorites but mostly the brownies she made for her grandchildren and great-grandchildren will always be a wonderful memory.   Mae Mae was the matriarch of the family and tried always to keep us in line.  For the women, she always expected hair done, makeup on (Especially lipstick) and finished with jewelry just like she was.

Mae Mae was Baptist by faith and a longtime member of First Baptist Church.  She was also a member of Seppa Youngblood Circle and a loyal member of the Bereavement Committee for many years.  Mae Mae’s “southern lady demeanor” will Always be remembered by many.

She was preceded in death by her parents, James Cecil Murphy and Lydia Kight Murphy; daughter, Judy Braddy Tapley; sisters, Evelyn Murphy Hayes, Lucretia Murply Greenway; brother, Jimmy C. Murphy.

Mary is survived by husband, Dana C. Kent, Sr. of Swainsboro; son, Dana C. Kent, Jr.  (Melonie) of Augusta;  grandson, Andrew Kent and granddaughter, Hannah Kent; daughter, Jan Braddy Slater (James) of Swainsboro; grandson, Jon Tapley (Kristian) of Atlanta; granddaughter, Jami Ledbetter Slater (Douglas) of Summertown; two great-granddaughters, Mary and Murphy Tapley; three great-grandsons, Patrick Ream, Liam Ream and Lucas Ream; one sister, Jonnie Murphy Boulineau; several special nieces and nephews; special friends and caregivers, Roger Bell Eason and Elaine Cummings; and many friends.

Funeral Services will be held at 2:00 P.M., Saturday, February 8, 2025, in the Chapel of Chapman Funeral Home with Reverend Phil Wilson officiating.

Interment will be in Swainsboro City Cemetery. 

The family will receive friends Saturday, February 8, 2025, from 1:00 P.M. to 2:00 P.M. at Chapman Funeral Home.

Pallbearers will be Bill Boulineau, Phillip Boulineau, Andrew Kent, Patrick Ream, Rob Kent and Al Knight.

The family would like to give a special thank you to the nursing staff at Pruitt Hospice.

Condolences may be expressed at www.chapmanfhofswainsboro.com.

Chapman Funeral Home of Swainsboro is in charge of the arrangements for Mrs. Mary Murphy Kent “Mae Mae”, 92, of Swainsboro.  

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Mary was my 3rd cousin, 1x removed through the Claxton line.  Our common ancestors were Zachariah William Claxton (1806-1895) and Lincelia 'Lincely' Bush Claxton (1806-1872).


Please join me in offering condolences to Mary's family and holding them in the light.