Wednesday Woman

 

Let me try out a new blog post theme for Wednesdays.  In these posts, I will share information about a woman in my family tree whom I admire, know a story about, or know very little about in the hopes I will learn more from my readers.  

I am starting this series with my great-grandmother, Emma Vermell Harrell Drake (1867-1935).  She was my father's maternal grandmother, but he never knew her.  I do not know much about her, but hopefully someone out there can fill in some blanks.

Emma Vermell Harrell was born September 4, 1867 in Emanuel County, Georgia, the oldest child of William Robert Harrell (1838-1908) and Catherine M. Odom (1841-1875).  Emma's mother died when she was just 8 years old.  Her father remarried 2.5 years later and had two sons with his second wife, Winford "Mimie" Barwick (1853-1939).  

She married William John Drake (1857-1927) when she was only 15 years old on July 30, 1883.  John was 10 years older than her.  He was a widower with a 2.5 year old when he and Emma married.  I don't know for sure, but I am sure Emma raised that daughter after the marriage. They lived in the Adrian area. John was a Methodist preacher, so therefore, Emma was a preacher's wife.  

John and Emma had 9 children:

* Hattie Lay Drake (1884-1912).  

Hattie married George Wesley Wise (1883-1962) and they had one child,

        - Minne Sadie Wise (1911-1996).  

Hattie passed away from typhoid fever.  Interesting twist in that her widower, George Wesley Wise, married Hattie's half sister, her father's daughter from his first marriage, Samantha Augusta Drake (1881-1966).  He needed help raising Sadie and Samantha agreed.  

* Kenneth Catherine Drake (1886-1973)

Kenneth married Joshua Franklin Howell in 1907 and moved to South Carolina.  They had 10 children:

- Bessie Lou Howell (1909-1991)

- Luther William Howell (1912-1978)

- Louise Vermell Howell (1913-1986)

- Eula Mae Howell (1915-2001)

- Katie Marie Howell (1917-2004)

- William Thomas Howell Sr (1919-1994)

- Johnnie Doris Howell (1921-? )

- Viola Catherine Howell (1923-2019)

- Joshua Franklin Howell (Jr) (1925-?)

- Joseph Henry Howell Sr (1927-2003)

* William Lovick Drake (1892-1912) 

Lovick died from typhoid fever, same as his sister, Hattie.  It went through the entire family and everyone else recovered.

* Nealie Vermell Drake (1895-1970)

My grandmother.  She married Lusion Keman "Loosh" Tapley (1870-1935) in 1914.  She was his third wife and raised his three sons after the death of his second wife, Mattie Schwalls (1877-1912). Nealie and Loosh had six children of their own:

- William Lamar Tapley (1915-1985)

- John Russell "Russ" Tapley (1917-1967)

- Hugh Dorsey 'Dorse' Tapley (1919-2007)

- Jack Dempsey Tapley (1932-1994)

- Irene Tapley (1925-2004)

- Gilbert Earl Tapley (1928-2008) - My father.

* William Robert Drake (1897-1927)

Robert was married to Fannie Gallens. He was murdered when there was an altercation between him and a drifter he and his friends were harassing.  The drifter shot Robert. 

* James Weldon Drake (1900-1977)

James moved to Florida and married Corrie Evelyn Nicols (1906-2005).  They had 3 children:

- Sarah Joyce Drake (1927-?)

- James Robert Drake (1931-?)

- June Carol Drake (1936-2000)

* Keland Lawton Drake Sr (1903-1972)

Lawton also moved to Florida.  He married Maude Helen Crews (1908-1999) and they had 1 child:

- Keland Lawton Drake Jr (1932-2010)

* Nancy Mary Ann Drake (1906-1931)

Nancy married Alvin Donaldson and they had one child:

- Alvin Donaldson (Jr)

* Martha Lou Drake (1908-1986)

 Marthie was another one who relocated to Florida.  She married Leamon Ellison (1906-1987) and they had no children.  

That makes 23 grand-children for John and Emma Harrell Drake.  

On August 10, 1927 (just 2 months after their son, Robert, was murdered), John Drake, Emma's husband, got up in the middle of the night and went outside. When he returned, their son, James, accidentally shot his father, not realizing who it was until it was too late.  As he was dying John told that it was an accident, took the blame and therefore exonerated his son.

The story whispered in the family is that Emma was mentally "off." Crazy even.  I offer that she had good reason to be.  She lost her mother when she was very young. She lost 2 children to typhoid fever in 1912.  She herself had the fever and recovered. She lost a son to homicide in June 1927 and then her husband was shot and killed by their own son in August 1927.  

In addition, my grandmother evidently never saw or talked to her parents after she married my grandfather, Loosh Tapley.  I am guessing her parents were not thrilled with the 25 year age difference, that he had been married twice before, and he had 4 children from those marriages.  When I pointed out to my father that his grandmother, Emma, died three months after his father, he had no recollection of going to the funeral or his mother going.  He never met his grandmother.

Plus at least 3 of her other children moved away before Emma passed.  It would not be so easy to travel in the 1930's so I don't know how much she saw them.

So I would venture to say that Emma had to be a strong woman with a true faith that got her through all those hard things in her life.  She worked hard and was a faithful and loving wife and mother.  She deserves to be admired and honored.